Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Naturals In Scarves Outdoors - Yay or Nay?

So this is what I went out of the house like this morning to drop everyone off where they needed to be. School, work, yada, yada, yada...

I feel like it's such a cop out to my hair sometimes when I rock my scarves outside of the house. Don't get me wrong, I'm not wearing some crummy looking things either. I have one of the nicest scarf collections ever assembled. Maybe I'll share that with you sometime.

But when I do sport a scarf, I feel like I'm in a disguise. Like the relaxed heads don't know if I'm just between relaxers and don't want the new growth to show, and the naturals don't know if I'm just a newbie with a twa hiding out from the world under there.

I feel like I don't belong to either party. And I feel left out. And quite honestly, kind of like other women think I'm hair lazy. Now I'm not going to lie, but some days I sport it because I am just that. Hair lazy. Is that really a crime?

Well that's just one thing I was thinking about for today and my natural ways. What do you all think about it? When you see a woman with a scarf on, what are your immediate and initial thoughts on the matter?

I know I have been mum since the summer months that I was spending with the kids, but now I'm back on the blogging horse and will be posting regularly and not as sporadic okay? Okay.

1 comment:

Teresha@Marlie and Me said...

I can relate! I rock the scarf every morning to drop off my wee bit at school. I don't feel like combing my hair for the 7 minute drive just to come home and retwist it. I'll comb it IF I'm running errands all day